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When couples finally decide they are not going to make it together there are so many questions about how to proceed they need a separation and divorce guidebook. Everyone is confused during separation and divorce, and no one makes the decision to separate lightly. While the counsel of friends, family and therapist might help you decide what you need to do, only you can make the decision and only you have to live with what you decide. Once these gut wrenching decisions have been made, it is usually better to stick to it.

If you have decided for a DIY divorce - in other words you are going to handle your divorce yourself - then you will need to begin by finding the correct divorce forms for your state in which you intend to file for divorce. This may be the state in which you reside, or the state in which your spouse currently resides. Be aware that divorce forms can vary in both layout and content from state to state and if you use the incorrect forms, your divorce process is going to be rejected at the very first step.